November 2011

Amanda in Singapore.

Amanda’s nearly-8-weeks stay in Singapore is coming to an end.

She misses and often ask about our home in Yuncheng, she can tell us that her home is in Yuncheng,
I am sure she had lots of fun in Singapore.

I can’t help but to feel that she grew up quite a bit during my 3 weeks absence.
And this 3 weeks apart made me patient with Amanda again.
I don’t flare up as much.

She now holds our hand and follows us when we out.
She used to have a mind of her own, running around at the malls.

She speaks well and is able to express herself very well.
She questioned me, why can’t she not go to bed?
I was caught off guard, it was her first time using 为什么,Why.
Surely I must answer that.
So in my most authoritative tone, because it bed time and because Mummy said so.
Which she accepted it (for now).
She must have finally figured how to use Why?, after me asking her so many questions.

I know kids who usually have problems differentiating, 你, 我, 他,You, Me, He/She.
They don’t quite know how to use it, and would repeat after whatever the adult said.
But Amanda uses it well.

She picked a few more English words but not understand when strangers tried talking to her.
I have to explain, she doesn’t understand English.
When I am shopping, She greets sales people, Ayi Ni Hao, repeatedly.
One day, she will understand that in Singapore, young adults, prefers to be addressed as Jiejie / GorGor.
And that everyone else is Auntie and Uncle.

She dropped her 咱们, and picked up, Wah lau!, with a Singapore accent. Haha!!!
She picked it from our conversation, and probably found this expression very funny.

She loves to imitate us talk in Cantonese by talking gibberish and often uses it to avoid eye contact when she thinks she is in big trouble.
She knows we find cute and silly when she does that.
Especially when she randomly inserts alphabets, a bit of Gonggong, Porpor, and characters of Teletubbies and In the Night Garden, here and there.

Fine with me, I am learning from books, to pick my battle and to avoid unnecessary power struggle.

She continues to love dancing, and loves to sing.
Happy birthday, London bridge and twinkle twinkle little star, barney theme are her current favorites.
I am working on her pronunciations, because these are the only lines she knows in English.

Her diet, she is now less choosy with food. Accept eggs. And sometimes eats her veggie / meat together with her rice. She used to spit them out when eaten together.
She loves her chicken rice and dark soy sauce and accepts gravy in her rice too.
Loves noodles. Loves durian. Loves Grandma’s soup. Beans. Prawns. Crabs. And Kueh Tu Tu (coconut cake). Which she usually stuff the entire snack into her mouth.
When she is happy and satisfied with her meal, she dances.

Its going to be cold when we return Home to Yuncheng this Sunday.
Hope she quickly adjust to the change in climate and environment.
*fingers crossed*

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From the studio - 2 years old.

It used to be a lot easier to get her to cooperate when Amanda was much younger.
Make a funny face or sound, and she’ll laugh.
Baby getting impatient? Lifting her up in the air, and make a few turns, she will be back to being happy and cooperative.

This time, we had to take her pictures over 3 sessions.
And I had to pay extras for them to go outdoor and to our estate, where I think Amanda would be comfortable and cooperate.
The photographer was rather impatient, and when Amanda wouldn’t sit still or coorperate, he would give up trying and ask us to return another day.
Impatient is what I wil tell people, when they ask me what I thought about their services.
They are just kids. The last studio I went to, they rock their little stars to sleep, in between shots.

Anyway, Here’s my favourite set, with Amanda looking girly and sweet.

From the studio - 2 years old.
From the studio - 2 years old.
From the studio - 2 years old.
This is her geniune “having fun” picture, only because she was chasing after Mummy.

Another set taken outdoor.
She have yet to warm up to the staff from the studio and was looking rather emo.

From the studio - 2 years old.
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From the studio - 2 years old.

From the studio - 2 years old.
Looking a little like her maternal Grandma and paternal Grandpa here.

Amanda dressed as a royalty and princessy in this set.

From the studio - 2 years old.

From the studio - 2 years old.

From the studio - 2 years old
Starting to lose patience…

From the studio - 2 years old.

From the studio - 2 years old.
From the studio - 2 years old.
She was in fact more interested in removing the score off the piano and .
almost dismantle the piano when asked to lean on the piano.

I am quite pleased with the outcome of most of the photos.
And wished they had done better on the family portrait. The colours were very washed.
Even when they supposedly corrected the colors in the photos.

From the studio - 2 years old
The Dongs.

And should have insisted having them do something to Amanda’s bed hair.
The lady seemed to be in a hurry to knock off and seemed relieved when I decided to return another day.

I hope Amanda learns to look into the camera and smile, by the time she turns 3.
I deleted far too many pictures of her looking lost like these.

From the studio - 2 years old.

Which she was in fact, looking at the lady who was trying to get her attention. Oh well, she suceeded.

More photos here.

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SevenEleven – 2011

November 11, 2011

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SevenEleven – 2011, originally uploaded by judebabe.

This post only 3 days late.
What an accomplishment for me.

I flew home a day before my birthday with a detour at Xiamen for Dp’s uni class reunion.
We were only back in China from Europe, last Wednesday.

It’s really important for me to celebrate my birthday with Amanda and family.

It was also a good decision made, better than celebrating with, DP.
He was a day late and got the dates mixed up.
I am so Glad that I left him behind, alone in our cold apartment in China.
And for the third day this week, there hasn’t been any power or heat in our area.

To get Amanda excited about birthdays, I let her her choose my birthday cake.

She is into things that are black, these days, but when I told her I wanted a cake in white and with fruits, she picked a right one.
But I decided to go with a black forest cake, for her.

And she was very happy with the many many candles.
Couldn’t say the same for the lady selling me the cake.
She took quite a while to count the candles.

As for the late post, this birthday i also wish to improve my time management.
Something I am really bad at.
So many things to do.
I am so distracted that I often forget to finish what I have started to do.

And the best birthday present, my baby girl, who looks at me all day, smiles with with a silly silly grin, 妈妈你回来啦!
In fact, she was too happy and too lost for words at the airport.

And yes, something from the famous 31 rue Cambon in Paris.

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