December 2010

Our Christmas.

December 30, 2010

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We got together with some friends to celebrate Christmas.

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This year, it is all about the kids.

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Despite the ‘poor lighting’ in the photos (the atmosphere was warm and cozy at the party), trust me! The kids were excited and having lots of fun!

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Oh no! I think Mummy is mad at me.

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I must do something to make it up to her…Hmmmz…

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哥哥,Can I borrow this?

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Fra-la-la-la-la…

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Trust me! I am my Mummy’s best present!
And she will be sooo touched. Kekeke!

Grandma Alice may not like what she is seeing.
But these days, Amanda imitates everything she sees!!!

Well, guess who dropped by….?

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Ho! Ho! Ho! Merrrrry Christmas Boys and Girls!!!

Its the best Santa we can come up with. In Yuncheng.

Time for photo with Santa.

Two were happy.

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Santa sounds like Daddy.

One was more interested in the beard.

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One was afraid and couldn’t sit still till Santa and everyone else in the room sang Twinkle Twinkle Little Stars…

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And one was excited and sat on Daddy Santa, in her Mummy’s belly.

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Then, Family Photos.

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Us. (And erm… Ronald Cheng?)

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“Santa” and Family.

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The Zhangs.

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The Wangs.

Time to unwrap the gifts. Definitely the highlight of the night.

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I am starting to love Christmas…

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Amanda : Mine! Mine! Mine!

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Helios : Opps…!

Seriously… everything was kinda blur from then on… There was a lot going on in the room!
I only remember Amanda and the other kids ripping the wrapper on her presents with excitement.
Everyone was EXCITED!!!

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Amanda. Is. Determined.

Amanda ripped open her presents with little help / almost no help from us.
She was anxious and used all her might to remove the wrappers.
Her determination and strength that night kinda surprised us…

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What’s next?

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This is HUGE.

Amanda was probably over-stimulated by the gift-ripping session.
She stood in the middle of the room looking kinda lost for a while.

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It will be exactly how I would feel if you put me in a huge room and telling me all that all the beautiful bags are going to mine.
Just stating an example.

Amanda then let out her new signature fake dry cry.

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Mummmmyyyy!!!

She was obviously drained from the FUN!
But it warms me to know my hug was everything she needed to feel better.
Hee!

I am sure as she grows older. She will be more emotionally ready for such excitement.
Beside, with two babies on the way, it will be so much more fun next Christmas.

That night, all the kids were in slumber-land in less than 10 minutes (coaxing Amanda to sleep is such a chore these days), I think its a sign that they had lots of fun!

And lastly,

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Enjoy the rest of 2010.

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A quick Winter update.

December 24, 2010

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I haven’t been updating but we are doing fine. :)

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Lately there isn’t anything interesting enough or I wasn’t quite in the mood to whip out the camera and take pictures.
Besides we have been really busy with an active toddler and getting out.
Things are also working out pretty well with the new nanny and well, at least, Amanda doesn’t resist her as much.

And oh! My dear Amanda gave me a pat on my head yesterday, after I changed into my home slippers as directed by her.
She’s such a darling these days and always giving us looks that says I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH and I WANT TO HUG YOU RIGHT NOW!!!

A short update on Amanda’s development.

She is learning to speak by looking at our mouth and tries to imitate.
Other than mumbling 爸爸, 妈妈 and sometimes 阿阿(for阿姨) right before falling asleep and in her dreams, she can also say 爷爷, 奶奶 in both Chinese and her Daddy’s dialect.
She could also say 姐姐(in Chinese and Cantonese) and recently 哥哥.
And if she’s excited or anxious to express herself, it would be 妈妈妈妈 for everything. Including slippers.

She’s quite bossy and is good in looking after ours and her stuff.
No one is allowed to go slipper-less in the house, a rule she came up with at 10 months old.
No one is allowed to play with Daddy’s and Mummy’s iPhone.
OR use the same monogram long wallet as her Daddy, she would insist her Daddy to pocket and keep it safe right away.
She would point to the stuffs around the house, shoes, cups and clothes, identifying them as Daddy’s and Mummy’s.

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Gtg!
Need to do some last minute present wrapping for the Christmas party for the kids tonight.
Gift wrap papers are so difficult to find in this town. A friend had to hunt them down and passed me some tattered ones.

For the kids, I am sure the presents itself will make it up.

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Merry X’mas!
From Us to You!

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I’m losing sleep…

December 15, 2010

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I’m losing sleep…, originally uploaded by judebabe.

Why do I eat too much of everything while my baby eats nothing at all?

It’s making me feel guilty each time I put food into my mouth.

It’s almost a month since we returned to China and she has little or no appetite for food.
It is also quite a struggle to get her try new stuff.

While she is still her active self, she still has phlegm and somehow still not feeling too well.

She is losing her baby fats. :(
And from the comments I gathered, apparently her eyes are now bigger.

I am so anxious, tired and yet there is nothing I can do at all.
Food and health.

I should also try working on her current routine and “lifestyle”.
She gets 13-14 hours of sleep a day. But goes to bed past midnight.

Sigh!
Maybe I not trying hard enough.

I need to work on my own lifestyle too.
I am blogging this at 4 in the morning.

I need to re-organize.
Need. To. Be. In. Control.

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I have always been wary of indoor playgrounds.
Because I once read that they are breeding grounds for all sorts of germs.
And esp in Yuncheng, where kids run around diaper-less and wiping food with their sleeves or smear their mucus or saliva on whatever they can lay their hands on.
And it would be kinda gross to be sitting in someone else’s pee when you think you are sitting in a pool of balls.
Though toilet-training starts early here in China… but when you are having fun… You just let go!

Yes. All kids do that at some point.
But I don’t the trust operators here are ‘vigilant’ or responsible to keep it clean enough.

We passed by the indoor playground at “The Place” in Beijing when Amanda was 9 months old.
It looks very bright and clean. But decided she was too young for it.
And thought that I would bring her to the playground when she was old enough and not to be trampled on.
Though it is compulsory that the parents must accompany their kids in.

And on our last trip to Beijing, I brought Amanda in.

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She doesn’t care much for the rides.

And so I brought her the area with lots of balloons.
It was her instinct to be wary of the floating the balloons that were floating and ‘bouncing’ around.

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The balloons were ‘floating’ and bouncing about because of the fans blowing at it. And Amanda’s hair too.

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Wah!

But soon overcame and warm up to the balloons when she saw me hitting the balloons.

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She was later joined by her Chang 哥哥..

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There were also some play area with blocks and toys.

When we were about to leave and from the corner of my eye, I thought I saw a puddle of pee. Opps!

Anyway, we are leaving for Beijing again.
To see Amanda’s cousin.
Amanda’s Gu-ma just gave birth to a baby girl.
I think I am more excited than DP.
Its Amanda very first first cousin!!!

Errm… Yah!
I think I might bring Amanda to the playground again this time.
And maybe to another playground at the mall where I will be visiting the hair saloon.
Must warn DP (who will be taking care of her while I am at the saloon) to keep a lookout and steer clear of wet puddles.

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Motherhood is…, originally uploaded by judebabe.

Entertaining your child at any time of the day and night.
Even when you could hardly open your eyes at 5am in the morning.



Motherhood is…, originally uploaded by judebabe.

When your baby is finally asleep at 12 midnight, you tip toe to the bathroom and curl your hair so that you look less frumpy when you bring her out to her baby early learning class the next morning.

Though you sometimes wish that you could by at the saloon for a cheap and good 20rmb wash n blow.

You also look forward to getting out and dressing up so that you wouldn’t sit in your pajamas all day.

But still look frumpy and mismatched on some days because you don’t have the time to dig deep into the wardrobe and dress up without a baby clinging on to you or runs around in the walk-in wardrobe.

You forget about yourself and feels awfully naked upon realizing that you forgot about apply sunscreen when out of the house.
All because the other baby couldnt find his own clothes and coats.

There is also the endless errands that you hardly find time for yourself.

However, The clingy baby makes up for everything.
She wants to hug you all the time.
And sticks her velvety soft face onto yours.

Yes. Motherhood is awesome.

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Amanda gets use to China again., originally uploaded by judebabe.

2 months is the longest I have been away from China since I have moved to China.
As for Amanda she seems to be happy with the change of environment…
She was happy to explore the home in Beijing and the home in Yuncheng…
Though she kept wanting to leave the our Beijing apartment the first night… Which I suspected she wanted to return to Grandpa Albert’s in Singapore.

And silly me thought that restraining an active toddler to the seat for the six hour flight was the only difficult part of the return.
Which fortunately wasn’t the case, Amanda was either sleeping, watching “Babe” (very interesting for any four-legged loving babies.) or enjoying the attention of Daddy and Mummy.

What I didn’t quite expect was Amanda falling sick with the change of season and humidity.
And that she hates wearing anything more than a layer and kept pulling off socks (which she pronouce it as 袜袜 wa-wa these days.) when she hasn’t got her shoes on.

Anyway, Amanda had a cold and cough into Day 3 of returning to China and in Beijing.
It was also accompanied by the accumulation in her intestines and indigestion of food, which too caused phlegm and caused the little one to snore louder than usual.
Apparently, thick mucus from her nose is also a sign of indigestion.

Poor girl who has little appetite for food, continues to be rather picky and is losing more of her baby fats.
She is also rejecting milk.

Amanda hates to be compelled and restrained when it comes to taking her medicine.
Something I found out after a few days of crying and struggling.

While she is no longer having cold, the poor girl is rather constipated which is not helping with her indigestion.
Getting help from traditional Chinese massage to help with her phlegm.

Hoping that Amanda can get better soon.
And not lose anymore weight.
Mum said over the video chat that Amanda’s face is sharper and has a chin. :(

No more double chins. Just one.

A new nanny, in her early 40s, arrived last week.
While she isn’t as super as I hope, she isn’t too bad but Amanda doesn’t like her.
Amanda will also be screaming angrily whenever he new nanny touches her stuffs, eg. Diaper or clothes, tries to dress her or carries her.

Amanda dislike anyone touching her stuffs or mummy’s handbags (good girl!) and along with a bunch of other useless stuffs, she would snatch no matter how heavy it is and gives them to me.

Even if Amanda do play with the new nanny, she would run to me after awhile and wants me to carry her when I am home.

I still think that Amanda prefers someone younger.

Contemplating to change to someone younger.
She was recommended by another nanny, who’s from the same village as my previous (so far one of the better one) nanny.
I am so sick with constant change of nanny and so hoping for the right one to build a long term relationship.
For Amanda. And that I could really take a good break sometimes.
It’s so tough!

There is also something I don’t quite like about the new nanny, other than she sleeps past 8 a.m, none of the nanny has ever done that.

I don’t like her tone of voice when she talks to Amanda in a very stern / angrily manner over lunch today.
I don’t quite know how to describe but I was quite shocked.
I also think that its a tone that only parents are allowed to use.

I hope I am not being overly protective here.

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